There’s been a conversation this week about a Guardian “Blind Date”, that highlights just how toxic (and silly) this whole conversation has become.

Even when you think you’re being reasonable – the extremes of the tribes in the “TERF” wars have everyone walking on eggshells to the point where it pollutes productive conversation.

I stumbled into one of those this week, and thankfully, we were able to cool off. But still… I think this example might be something we can learn from.